Good friends - is one of the main components of your child's happy childhood and a good childhood - it's memories for a lifetime.The main advantage of the fact that children spend time is in your home that your child is supervised and you can make sure that nothing bad happened.
How to resolve disputes when choosing children's games
When kids get together, not always so good and rosy as it seems at first glance.First, they giggle, laugh, have fun, and generally behave very friendly, but then, all very quickly turns into noise, shouting, fights and disputes.
If your patience is not enough, if you are tired of being constantly "referee" in dealing with children's issues, most importantly believe in what ever it is still over.Indeed, there is a way to end the dispute between the children, fighting tears.You need to do two things to make your summer vacation comfortable for children and for themselves.First, you need to devote a little time to set up your home so that the children it was comfortable a
It is possible that all of the above - only the way in which the child wants to draw the attention of parents.Below are a few tips that will help deliver the children from the thoughts of worthlessness and that nobody likes them.Also, these tips will help you teach children to behave properly, and try to solve their own problems, and not every time to run to the beloved mother and complain.By following these tips, the children will feel happier at home will be more order and your nerves will remain intact.What could be better?
1. Set the unspoken rules
child wants to be near a reliable friend, and not sneak.Tears and constant complaints - is not an option.The best way to get rid of the problems - the search for a peaceful solution.
2. Buy a timer in the form of some funny figures
frequent cause of quarrels and disputes between the children, is that they both want to play the same toy.To comply with fair use timer.Older children will suit the clock or the clock, and llja young children make better use of timers in the form of animals and fairy-tale characters.You need to decide how long children should swap toys.
3. Hide away, what is valuable to your family
In every house there are things that are valuable to all members of the family - not only in material terms but also as a memory.If you know that the child should come friends, try to clear these things away.Thus, you reduce by several times the likelihood of conflicts, scandals and quarrels.
4. Teach children to determine the place.
Rock-paper-scissors.Calculation of serial numbers.Throwing a coin.There are many techniques that are useful when children can not decide who will be first, second, and so on in turn.You can also determine what game to play.
5. Form a box with toys.
To minimize conflicts and to ensure that there were fewer complaints have to do "fun boxes" for your children and their friends.This may be baskets, boxes, or plastic containers.They should be grouped according to age.The contents of the box for younger children: plasticine boards for sculpting, shape, stack, soap bubbles, toy cars and dolls.Boxes for older children should include: album, pencils, markers, designers.Also for children of any age, you must have formed a spare box to captivate children if ordinary toys do not help.
6. break to be around.
Explain to your child that you need one every two hours to make a break at least for 5-7 minutes - then the activity will not bother and children stop quarreling.And yet, here there is a good advice when your child begins, not like some action some of his friends, that he considers himself to ten to calm down, but will avoid conflict.
7. Number of children must be even
truth the old saying: "Two people - a company, and three people - a crowd."Inviting friends to visit, try to ensure that the total number of children (your own and those that came to visit) was even, that is, that when splitting into pairs, no one was left alone.
8. Teach your child to deal with conflicts.
The best way to prevent the constant conflicts, - to teach children to solve their own, without the help of adults.
Here are three steps to resolve the conflict, you can advise your child (bring them to automatism - in the house will be quieter):
- when a conflict is brewing, you need to stop, take a deep breath and calm down - the problem will never be solved, if we solve itwhile in a state of panic or aggression;
- need to look at the problem from different angles, avoid insults and accusations;
- decision must be fair and must satisfy all the parties to the conflict.